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Confidence & Assertiveness Concerns

Understanding Confidence and Assertiveness

Enhancing Confidence and Assertiveness: Building Self-Belief and Clear Communication

Confidence and assertiveness are cornerstones of emotional well-being and effectiveness in relationships. Confidence reflects how you view our abilities and self-worth, while assertiveness represents the skill of communicating those beliefs—clearly, respectfully, and without fear or guilt.

When these areas are underdeveloped, individuals often find themselves people pleasing, over-apologizing, avoiding conflict, and doubting or silencing their inner voice. Others may oscillate between resentment and frustration and struggle to find a balanced due to their inability to assert their own needs.

At Upper East Side Psychology, we help you strengthen confidence from the inside out—by examining self-beliefs, learning communication skills, and cultivating the emotional tools to show up authentically in both personal and professional life.

Confidence & Assertiveness Concerns

If these symptoms feel familiar, help is available—and healing is possible.

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Reach out today to connect with one of our compassionate and experienced clinicians. Whether you're seeking support for yourself, your family, or your child, Upper East Side Psychology is committed to providing personalized, evidence-based care tailored to your unique needs. 

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Why Choose Upper East Side Psychology


Our practice is built on a foundation of evidence-based care and individualized attention.
We are not a one-size-fits-all clinic. Every treatment plan is designed collaboratively, ensuring that therapy aligns with your goals, values, and pace of growth.


We provide:

  • Expert clinicians specializing in CBT, DBT, and performance psychology

  • Practical, real-world tools and accountability between sessions

  • A compassionate, nonjudgmental environment

  • In-person and virtual therapy options across New York, Virginia, and PSYPACT states


At Upper East Side Psychology, our mission is to help you move from self-doubt to self-trust, and from passivity to presence—so you can speak, act, and live with confidence.


Getting Started


Building confidence and assertiveness is a process of rediscovering your voice and learning to stand firmly in your values.


If you’re ready to feel more self-assured, communicate more effectively, and lead a life that reflects your authentic self, we’re here to help.


Contact Upper East Side Psychology to schedule a consultation.


Together, we’ll develop the tools you need to feel more capable, connected, and confident—both personally and professionally.

Meet the Therapists

Dr Gabrielle Schroyer-Hoffman, Phd
Dr. Schreyer-Hoffman, Ph.D.

Founder and Licensed Psychologist in NY, VA and PsyPact States

Dr. Kayla Yellen, Psy.D_
Dr. Kayla Yellen, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist, 

Director of Training and Supervision

Dr. James Modico, Psy.D.
Dr. James Modico, Psy.D.

Postdoctoral Fellow

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Dr. Cierra Clark, PsyD
Dr. Cierra Clark Psy.D.

Postdoctoral Fellow

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Averey Esposito LMSW
Averey Esposito

LMSW

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Kate Bollerman

 MHC-LP

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Danielle Minogue
Danielle Minogue

LMSW

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Caitlin Frankel

LMSW

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Polina Roustamov

MHC-LP,  NTA

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Ella Williams LMSW
Ella Williams

LMSW

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Maya Statmore, LMSW
Maya Statmore

LMSW

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Paige Deertz. LMSW
Paige Deertz

LMSW

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Read what our patients have to say about us.

“The entire staff operates with integrity, compassion, and a clear commitment to client well-being. Their collaborative and trauma-informed approach fosters a safe and supportive environment for meaningful therapeutic work.”

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“Dr. G is a highly skilled and insightful clinician whose presence is both grounded and attuned. Her approach is thoughtful, evidence-informed, and deeply respectful of the therapeutic process.”

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Upper East Side Psychology
Midtown East Psychology

Providing in-person and virtual therapy in New York and virtual therapy in Virginia and Psypact States.

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Upper East Side

115 East 82nd Street

New York, NY 10028

​Midtown East

420 Lexington Avenue Suite 354

New York, NY 10170

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